Grand Magnolia

Grand Magnolia
The stunning leaves of the magnolia make for a bold statement with hydrangea and lotus pods to soften.

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Lest We Forget


The last week has seen our nation lose three of it's finest young men.  It brings to light the vulnerability of our warriors, as well as the strength shown by both friends and family when the person they love dearly is KIA (Killed In Action).
Today I attended the memorial service for Brett Wood, and try as I might, was still moved to tears despite willing myself to "be strong for her...be strong for Elvie".  For the first time ever, the wife of a fallen brother stood up and spoke of her thanks for the support of her family by defence personnel and Brett's mates.  Until this moment, I thought I was pretty strong myself!  But to stand in front of a crowd of soldiers and close family members and express your thanks in a voice that is screaming pain and sorrow, takes more guts and courage than I could ever muster in such a circumstance.  I have been taught a valuable lesson today.  No matter how far you think you are sinking in sorrow and despair, there is always enough courage inside your vulnerable exterior to stand up and do the right thing.  I know Brett would have been immensely proud of his wife.  She is a true inspiration.
I was given the honour to create the wreaths for this service, and the funeral on Friday.  Here are a sample...Lest We Forget.